I feel really guilty is it my fault?

ok so this kid invited me over to watch a movie yeah thats fine and we started making out who cares and like we did some other stuff (( i did it hesitantly )) and he like wanted me to give him head and i waslike i dont know i dont know i dont really want too and he like kind of pushed my head down so i would doo it and like held it there andi feel guilty because it was my fault!!
Answer:
No. It wasn't your fault. He shouldn't have forced you if you said 'No" by holding your head down.

Next time sweetie, make sure you say "No" and get your point across and be careful about going to someones house alone. Next time it could be worse for you.

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1) If the kid was a minor %26 you're an adult it was a crime, so get your act together. Go to confession (if Catholic), %26 get psych treatment from a professional.
2) If the kid was about your age, it sounds like you weren't really eager to do it, and feel guilty for going against your own inside feelings. The guilt will go away, but try to learn to be more assertive.

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DON'T feel guilty! If any-one should be guilty it should be that guy. No-one should ever force you to do anything you don't want to do. I have been in the same situation as you when I was a teen, and an older guy pressured me into doing things I didn't want to do. I hated myself for giving in. The only thing to do is be forceful and say NO. Its easier said than done, I know. When you're there it's often not that easy. But don't be a push over, only do what you feel comfortable doing and remember be true to yourself! Don't do things that could put you at risk of STD's either cause it sounds like that kid is a bully for forcing you. Its not your fault OK?! :)

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please don't!! it's not your fault. you tried, and that guy was just an asshole. who was just extremely horny. next time, if you really feel strongly about something, project it! if he doesn't respect that, he's not worth knowing. please don't feel guilty. you honestly shouldn't...feel better and i hope everything works out fine. :]

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Why is it your fault. Do not feel this way. He is a jerk and it is his fault because he held your head down. Actually if he made you do it that could be a crime and he could be in big trouble

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That's what you get for kissing a boy before marriage, trollop!

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he pushed himself on you. you need to leave him be as he is to aggresive to do that. the decision should have been up to you not him. and please don't do that, as in these times you dont know what anyone has.

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Please be careful and do not get yourself in situations with pushy guys.
It could have been much worse.

If you feel up to it, tell him what he did was rude and disrespectful. Tell him he should not push women to do things they don't want to do.
He might not realize how bad he made you feel. You should tell him. However, I would suggest not being alone with him in the future.

Young men often push young women to do things they don't want, it's VERY important for you to stand up for yourself.
Women have the tendency to "be nice" and feel like they "deserve it."

Please believe you are valuable enough to not be used!

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